They say love is just like a bomb. Being with someone and feeling comfortable about it can be a fantastic thing, especially when your partner feels the same way in return. However, how do you know your partner is the one or just hook up? Even though many people do not believe the concept of soulmate, I'm still bringing this subject on the table. If you want to find out your partner is your soulmate or not, here are some signals that might be helpful to you.
You just know it. There is no exam to take to tell whether you have found your soulmate or not. To figure it out, you should use your instinct. Sometimes, you just know it. You just know that he/she is the one. I know how illusory and even stupid it may sound, but when you have that feeling, you will know what it means. When that feeling show up, you will feel completely dynamic, open and totally in love. Of course, everyone has different ways of expression. But there is a big difference between soulmate and hookup date.
They are not only your lover, but also your best friend. Friendship is the best foundation for all relationships. Otherwise, why do you think so many movies talk about two best friends getting together. If you and your partner have an honest and positive friendship, then this is an amazing sign for finding your soulmate.
When you are with them, you will feel at ease. You spend so much time together, so when you are with him/her, you would feel at your most comfortable status, just as relaxed as you are in your own home. Of course, you might feel a little nervous in the beginning, but when you both feel comfortable, it would be as natural as it should be.
You can feel great sympathy for them. When they fail in exam, you might feel the same depression as they do. To some extent, you can feel how they feel. In return, when you feel sad or happy, they can feel the same too. No one can feel more proud for you than your lover. When they succeed in doing something, nothing can make you happier. But hookup dating partner won't make you feel this way.
You respect each other. Any relationship can't survive without respect, so if your partner can't appreciate the way you are, they might not be your soulmate. Your soulmate should be someone who cares how you feel and what you think, instead of wiping them out. They should feel grateful, loving and always treat you well with total respect.
You are compatible. By saying compatible, I'm not saying you should have the same background and equivalent financial status. You don't need to be each other's replicant. Even if you have different character and experience, you can still be meant for each other. More importantly, you should be okay with each other's attitude, feelings and thoughts even if they are different with yours.
